Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Success Story for a Finance Guy


This is a delightful story and everyone I tell this narrative to seems to love the ending! I hope it is inspiring and illuminating to you. And just know that magnetically attracting exactly what you want CAN happen for you too! My intention is for you to create a manifestation of your own that is just as delightful!

A finance fellow came to me for coaching. He had been studying finance part-time at the university level. He was definitely qualified to work in the finance field and he wanted a full-time position. However, for the past two years, he could only find a part-time job – sometimes in finance and sometimes in a completely unrelated field. And as you can imagine, this was stressful because it was difficult for him to pay his rent, even though he lived in a reasonably priced place with 3 other roommates.

He also wanted to be dating women but he could barely get a date, no matter what he did. And from what he told me, he was doing a lot of everything: attending singles events of many organizations, online dating, pursuing every gal he met at Starbucks, restaurants, etc. Believe me when I say he was “wearing his buns out" chasing, pursuing, doing, calling, etc.

So we began to do the coaching, and we started with a focus on his career, since he felt that this was his top priority. I got to know the fellow, and so I was able to select coaching tools and strategies that were appropriate for him. Let me describe a couple of the tools here. One of the tools we used was creating clarity – a very precise written list of exactly what his ideal job looked like. I also had him read and review my favorite Law of Attraction book
and CD, so he could saturate his mind with how to attract and manifest what he wanted.

Then one day, only 3-4 sessions into the coaching, he received a call asking if he could go NOW to a company that was interested in him. He jumped into his business clothes, went there, and he got the job! Later, we reviewed the list describing his ideal job and his new position matched every single item he had written, EVERY SINGLE THING! YEA, Success!

At the same time all this was happening, he had a major turn-around in his dating life. A gal he had met CALLED HIM and asked HIM to TAKE HER OUT THAT VERY SAME NIGHT! Now this is what I call magnetizing success right TO ya!

Please note that we did absolutely no coaching on attracting women. Not even so much as set an intention. So what happened? How was it that he was able to attract a whole different experience with dating? By implementing the coaching tools and strategies, he was able to raise his personal vibration around his career to a much higher level. As a result, his OVERALL vibration went much higher. So then the finance guy became more of a magnet in all the other areas of his life, attracting TO him more of the things he wanted, but without him having to CALL, CHASE, and PURSUE women to exhaustion, which is what he had been doing up until then.
Now, let me ask, does this example generate any inspired ideas FOR YOU on how you might redirect your focus onto another area of your life, in a way that might raise your overall vibration? Lots of creative thinking power to you!